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	<pubDate>Wed, 18 Jul 2007 21:26:00 +0000</pubDate>
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      <title><![CDATA[I'm officially a Laker!]]></title>
      <description><![CDATA[Finally my last name change is official.  I took off work a bit early last week to head down to the social security office.  There was a line, but the wait wasn't too bad, about 15-20 minutes.   I thought it would be worst than that.  Last time I went there during lunch time, there was a line looping back and forth in a waiting room.  I bet people first waited there, then they'd be called upstair and wait some more.  I left right away, knowing that the line would move at the speed of a snail and it was probably true.  Anyway, the more agonizing wait was the check in at the door.  This MTA guy was taking at least 10 minutes to take off his jacket and zillion other metal things he carried with him before going through the metal detector.  I was getting annoyed when he had to keep going back and forth to get his metal accessories that set off the detector.  I was afraid the office would close soon and didn't want to come back again.  I guess finally he noticed my annoyance and said to let the rest of the people go through first.  It's ridiculous how someone could carry so much metal craps.  Then it's interesting how 99% of the line was all women.  They probably all went there for the same reason as mine.  What I don't understand is how they refused to process my name change when I sent in the form.  I thought they needed to see my ID or something, but when I got there, they didn't even ask for it.  The guy just typed typed typed on the keyboard, looked at the marriage certificate and then printed out a confirmation of the request.  The whole thing took about 5 minutes.  Why was my presence there so important?  I could very well be someone else and requested for it.  It's not like they have my photo on the social security card that can identify me.  And I think this is just required for brooklyn residents only too.  I'm glad that it's done.  ]]></description>
      <link>http://www.john-n-alice.com/blog/index.php?id=19</link>
      <pubDate>Sat, 14 Jan 2006 17:39:32 +0000</pubDate>
      <category>General</category>
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      <title><![CDATA[Interesting site about Manhattan Architecture]]></title>
      <description><![CDATA[http://www.nyc-architecture.com/index.html]]></description>
      <link>http://www.john-n-alice.com/blog/index.php?id=18</link>
      <pubDate>Sun, 01 Jan 2006 14:23:11 +0000</pubDate>
      <category>General</category>
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      <title><![CDATA[Breaking the tradition...]]></title>
      <description><![CDATA[can't believe it's already 3 months since you know when.  Time has truly flown by quickly.  There's been many attempts on my part to get an early dip in the cake top we preserved from the wedding.  I didn't even know about this good old tradition about preserving wedding cake for the one year anniversary for good luck.  But my thought is what if it didn't preserve well enough for that one year, that 6 inch yummy cake will be wasted.  I tried to convince John to have a piece every month, but he's holding it pretty strong.  He said maybe when we move to a new place.  Let's hope the move will happen soon...]]></description>
      <link>http://www.john-n-alice.com/blog/index.php?id=17</link>
      <pubDate>Tue, 27 Dec 2005 21:40:53 +0000</pubDate>
      <category>General</category>
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      <title><![CDATA[An NYC Episode...]]></title>
      <description><![CDATA[NYC is known to be an exciting city.  Last year, we had a blackout that forced people to walk miles to get home.  I still remember hearing people partying out that night in the middle of the dark and drinking beers.  It was like a blast.  And over the past three days, it's like dejavu again, people are walking on bridges all over the city again.  Thanks to the MTA and TWU for procastinating their contract negotiation!! Surprisingly, people generally didn't seem to mind the walk to work, despite the frigid weather, because new yorkers are hard core.  We endure whatever we face and we survive.  I guess I am not as strong, the first day I chicken out, I didn't go into work, but I wasn't prepared enough.  My carpool plan blew up in my face last minute that day.  The good thing was I get to stay in and not having to wait on line in the cold for the train or carpooling.  After seeing people packing the carpool staging area and stations to catch a ride to and from home, I wasn't about to be a part of the mess.  I decided to take a new challenge that I never thought of doing, biking to work from brooklyn to downtown manhattan.  Apparently nyc.gov has a map of bike route, I never give any thought of its existence, I guess it makes sense to have one.  My first route was to bike southward along the river on the brooklyn side and tried to find my way to Brooklyn Bridge.  Half way from home to the bridge, I almost gave up.  My leg was starting to cramp up or frozen, I wasn't sure what it was.  I only knew I was about to lose control of it.  Surprisely, it was just the left leg, I guess that's my lazy leg.  Then I thought I needed to try harder, but I could have done it without the wind swooshing above my head .  Biking through the industrial area of williamsburg was strange.  The road was bumpy at time and it was like a wasteland, there is not much around, not much cars or people.  I finally saw this condo building facing the river that is advertised for a ridiculous asking pric ..]]></description>
      <link>http://www.john-n-alice.com/blog/index.php?id=16</link>
      <pubDate>Thu, 22 Dec 2005 21:09:46 +0000</pubDate>
      <category>General</category>
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      <title><![CDATA[Where art thou...]]></title>
      <description><![CDATA[I've been slacking off with my blog entries, maybe still trying to recover from exhaustion of wedding planning <img src="http://www.john-n-alice.com/blog/smilies/icon_smile.gif" alt=":)" />  Today our subway line made the Times, front page of the Metro section.  It's the only line in nyc that doesn't go through Manhattan, the line that alot who lives in ny might not even know about, because it doesn't run through Manhattan.  And how did it make the headline? of the Times? because it's so bad, now MTA decided that no one cares enough if they made it the worst line there is.  A long while ago, they decide to cut the train by half, from 8 cars to 4 cars I think.  Imagine you are about to get underground for this train, and you heard that it is pulling in the station, you better run like there is no tomorrow to catch that train, especially during the night.  Not only it retardedly stops midway on the platform, it may come very infrequently once it hits 9pm.  In some days if I were wearing heals, I know I have no chance of catching the train if it just pulled in as I swipe the metrocard through the turnstile.  The best luck I can get is to hope that there are at least 2 persons ahead of me as the train pulls in, then they would start running, it would be like a track relay, they'd reach the train ahead just in time to delay the train for maybe 3 seconds.  If the conductor was nice enough, he would notice there is another person and me running our lives out to catch the train, he would hold it there as we sprint passed him and start panting entering into the crowded car.  You need a second person between you and the train because it would seem to him that you are not that far away.  And somehow I always notice the conductor having a smile, he probably realizes how ridiculous it is that we have to sprint our way to work.   Anyway, going back to this silly train making its once-in-a-century headline, MTA decides to remove the conductor from the train, who is straphangers' only reliable train break on this line.  How much more pain can MTA put on th ..]]></description>
      <link>http://www.john-n-alice.com/blog/index.php?id=15</link>
      <pubDate>Wed, 07 Dec 2005 01:34:45 +0000</pubDate>
      <category>General</category>
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      <title><![CDATA[One Month Later...]]></title>
      <description><![CDATA[yay! we made it passed one month without killing each other  <img src="http://www.john-n-alice.com/blog/smilies/icon_biggrin.gif" alt="icon_biggrin" />  Nothing much has changed really, except I find myself reminiscing the wedding looking at the pictures.  Life has definitely moved on though.  I guess being married is like boarding a forever waiting train that finally arrives, you can move on and toward your goals and destinations, or maybe like water constantly splashing against a dam and then finally breaks through and flows back to the ocean...don't know, something like that, hehe.
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      <link>http://www.john-n-alice.com/blog/index.php?id=14</link>
      <pubDate>Tue, 25 Oct 2005 00:36:45 +0000</pubDate>
      <category>General</category>
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      <title><![CDATA[Being a Mrs...]]></title>
      <description><![CDATA[I think the addressing for married women need to be changed.   After you got married, all of a sudden, your name disappear from all the addressings.  Your name reduced to nothing, but just &quot;Mrs.&quot;  I've been getting question lately about whether it feels different to be married, I've been responding no, but I think I have one - the existence of my name just fell off the face of the earth after I got married!  Wouldn't it be nice to get some kind of acknowledgement, after all, we all identify ourselves by our names.  ]]></description>
      <link>http://www.john-n-alice.com/blog/index.php?id=13</link>
      <pubDate>Fri, 07 Oct 2005 12:42:02 +0000</pubDate>
      <category>General</category>
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      <title><![CDATA[Aruba, One Happy Island!!]]></title>
      <description><![CDATA[posted some pics from the trip...
http://john-n-alice.com/gallery/thumbnails.php?album=5]]></description>
      <link>http://www.john-n-alice.com/blog/index.php?id=12</link>
      <pubDate>Tue, 04 Oct 2005 23:03:37 +0000</pubDate>
      <category>General</category>
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      <title><![CDATA[We did it!!!]]></title>
      <description><![CDATA[Wow, the wedding day flew by so fast and yet so memorable.  I'm just glad that we pulled it off.  It was very satisfying to plan every aspect of it ourselves, from getting the photographer to getting the Pratt Mansion to host the reception to laboring our printer the many hours of printing the ceremony programs.  The feeling of getting it done was just so overwhelming.  We pat each other on the back for making this happened.  I don't think I would have changed any of it, if we were to do it again.  I don't want to do it again anyway, it was just surprising in a way, we planned this with our envision of what we wanted for our special day, but we didn't know if things will turn out the way we planned, but everything really did come together pretty perfectly.  Along the way, we were nervous whether we made the right decisions with who we went with.  We were just extremely happy to have everyone there supporting and celebrating our day, from our families to our friends to people who we worked with to make our envision happened.  The wedding day really couldn't have been as perfect without our friends and families enjoying themselves, dancing the night away.  

I have to admit though, there was time during the day that was nerve wrecking.  First, i was having a hard time dragging myself out of bed, even though it wasn't an early start, but i didn't go to bed until just a few hours before that.  Then I was afraid I'd forget to bring all the dresses, I didn't want to forget my shoes or something.  And because of the darn city traffic, I got to my hair appointment late, but they did a good job putting me right on schedule when I told them when I needed to be out of there.  I think I had the best hair up-do.  They helped me put the tiara on, I felt funny at first, but I got used to it looking at the mirror while waiting for John to pick me up.  People there at the salon was complimenting on it, which really helped whether or not they were just saying it.  Then, as we were  ..]]></description>
      <link>http://www.john-n-alice.com/blog/index.php?id=11</link>
      <pubDate>Mon, 26 Sep 2005 23:05:26 +0000</pubDate>
      <category>General</category>
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      <title><![CDATA[Eleven!!!]]></title>
      <description><![CDATA[Let me do the honor ...11 days!!

I might be pulling an all nighter to tie some loose ends.  Just need to put a couple of things together.  Feel like i'm working at a sweatshop.  Here i am in the bedroom with just the fan on in this hot summer night, typing it away on the laptop, which is about to run out of battery.  The arm rest area on the laptop has started burning my arms a long while ago, I guess I keep ignoring it probably b/c I can feel this force field of heat has already surrounded me.  Thank god I haven't started sweating like I just came out of a shower.  Darn, low battery! Gotta recharge.  

Okay, where was I...everything is pretty much all set.  Hm...no, still missing my third dress.  I guess it's optional.  I've been waiting to get in perfect shape to get it and to my fault, I've been slacking off at going to the gym.  So I have 10 days of intensive exercising, which is still do-able. My eyes are starting to hurt now.  I guess i'm running low in brain power too.  Counting down to be continued tomorrow...]]></description>
      <link>http://www.john-n-alice.com/blog/index.php?id=10</link>
      <pubDate>Tue, 13 Sep 2005 01:53:25 +0000</pubDate>
      <category>General</category>
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